Huna Article
Huna International
Energy and Justice by Jim Brinkley
In our litiginous society, anyone can sue anyone for anything at any time! It
has happened to me. The first time, I was sued by a friend's ex-wife. In the
early 1990s, a friend of mine went through a painful divorce. Even more painful
was the property settlement, which took over ten years. He and his ex-wife
spent many days in court, countless hours with their respective attorneys
plotting strategy, and many thousands of dollars in their battle over who
should get what. The problem was that they didn't have much. Their financial
status had been hard hit by a loss of high tech jobs at the beginning of the
decade. My friend's ex knew this but couldn't accept it. She believed that my
friend had secreted away a large amount of money, possibly millions, before
their separation. He only wished that it were true.
Because I had business dealings with this friend, his ex somehow assumed that I
must be hiding this imagined money. Over the years she sued me on four
different occasions. She also spread many malicious rumors about me, some of
which portrayed me as a hateful, abusive person, which I am not. Although each
of the suits was totally groundless, I was forced to defend myself.
She lost every case. At the conclusion of the last case, the judge sanctioned
her attorneys for harassing me and ordered them to pay me damages. The amount
was negligible: just a token to convince the lawyers to leave me alone in the
future. It did not begin to reimburse me for my costs in time, money, and
stress. So, although I "won," I was out many thousands of dollars and wasted
much valuable time. I felt cheated and believed that "justice" had not been
done.
Some years ago we had an employee who started out her service with our group in
an exemplary manner. She was bright, dedicated, highly technically trained, and
had a strong work ethic. After a few years, personal problems began to plague
her and ultimately they began to affect her work. She began arriving to work
late, forging her time card, leaving early without permission, shifting duties
that were rightfully hers to other employees, and refusing to instruct the
junior people she was assigned to train. We had numerous private discussions
with her, attempted to obtain counseling for her, and tried to help her in any
other way possible. However, each time we approached her about her
deteriorating work performance, she became more and more angry and resentful.
She virtually dared us to fire her and threatened us with legal action if we
did.
So it came as no real surprise when, about eight months after we had let her
go, I received a letter from an attorney stating her intention to file a
lawsuit if we did not immediately pay her an exorbitant sum of money. The
letter, which contained about sixteen serious but completely falsified
accusations, was turned over to our legal counsel. She was very conscientious
in reviewing our employee records and in taking detailed statements from me, my
partners, and all of our employees. When she had completed this work, our
attorney concurred that the allegations were absurd and so stated in a letter
to the opposing counsel, threatening a counter-suit.
Our attorney also said that she knew the opposing law firm well and that if
their threats did not succeed they would wait until two years later, just
before the statute of limitations was due to expire, before actually filing
suit. Sure enough, a week before that date, legal documents arrived confirming
that our former employee had filed suit. This time there were only four false
accusations. Within days, our attorney had convinced the opposing counsel to
drop three of them, rather than risk counter-suit and possible legal sanctions.
The fourth false accusation the opposing attorney would not drop. He realized
that although it was false, it was not blatantly or obviously so. He knew that
we could prove it false in court but that didn't matter to him. His goal was to
reach a settlement and never go to court. He had a fee fixed in his head that
he knew he could get; if not through settlement, then through legal fees, even
if he lost the case.
When my attorney proposed that we settle the case, I was very angry. I stated
that there was no way I would reward false accusations with a monetary
settlement. Even after she was able to whittle the amount of the settlement to
be accepted by the plaintiff to less than a fifth of the original asked for
amount, I refused to consider settlement. She persisted, pointing out that it
would cost three or even four times the amount of the proposed settlement to
defend the case in court. I would have to spend many hours of my time and
endure the discomfort and unpleasantness of being cross examined. I would also
have to face the possibility, however remote, that we might lose the case
because the jury would sympathize with the employee, simply because she was the
employee. So, I allowed my attorney to settle. Even though the stress was over,
I felt that I had been cheated and I believed that "justice" had not been done.
Then I began to think about these two cases from the Huna point of view. Your
world is what you think it is. Instead of thinking of my friend's ex-wife's
lawsuits as a wedge that might drive us apart and destroy our business, I began
to think of them as a challenge that would bring all the members of our group
closer together, which is exactly what happened. Instead of thinking of my
payment to our former employee as a legal settlement, I began to think of it as
a bonus for those early years when she did such good work for us.
Huna teaches us that everything is energy, so there is an unlimited supply of
energy. The third principle states that, "Energy flows where attention goes,"
so we can tap into the unlimited supply of energy at any time and redirect it
to produce prosperity, whether it be financial prosperity or any other kind.
Over the ten years that my friend's ex harassed us, she gained a massive amount
of weight, became bankrupt, alienated her only child, and became virtually
friendless. Every attorney in the county knew about her false accusations and
when she attempted to sue a fifth time, no attorney would take her case. She
eventually gave up and moved to another part of the country. Meanwhile, in the
years since she had left our employ, our former staff member had become
impoverished, lost her home, lost two jobs, and been involved in several
disputes with her neighbors.
On the other hand, our group was thriving. We had replaced our former staff
member with other technically expert people, employee morale had vastly
improved, and our business was booming. My own personal finances had improved
dramatically. At the same time, my personal life had soared to new heights, and
I had become happier than I had ever been.
While these two individuals had been directing and focusing all their energies
on hatred and revenge; my friend, our employees, and I had been directing and
focusing our energies on building personal relationships, financial prosperity,
and career satisfaction. And we had succeeded.
I came to see that "justice" is better measured in terms of how one's overall
life is progressing, rather than by a court room verdict or a check written.
The universe has been very just to us and compared to that, what do the actions
of a few individuals matter? So I began to pray for prosperity and success in
whatever new endeavors our former employee might choose and for peace and love
to replace her thoughts of hatred and revenge. Similarly, I prayed for my
friend's ex to find a better life in her new home. I went on several vision
quests on behalf of each of them. Each of those quests left me feeling
satisfied and at peace.
Where your attention goes is where your energy flows, and where your energy
flows determines what you get. In other words, you get what you think about. If
your thoughts are filled with revenge, anger, distrust, fear, and hate, those
are the very things you will draw to you. If they are filled instead with
peace, harmony, joy, prosperity, and love, those are the benefits you will
attract. It has been said that we should be careful what we pray for, because
we will probably get it. But every thought is a prayer! So be careful what you
think about. You will probably get that, too.
Copyright Huna International 2001
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